Stop trying to control people

If you're getting defensive/afraid/controlling, stop and ask these questions:

 

* What am I afraid of?

* Is my fear realistic?

* Can I actually control the situation?

* Is it worth the intimacy it would cost me? (If it's someone you care about)

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    Kyle Corey
    I thought this was a complaint.
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      Sea
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      Tricked ya!
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    RainbowKid
    2. Am I surrounded by stupid ass people? 🤔🤣
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      Debbie Thomas
      Have we forgotten tide pods? In the  general public at large. Just saying.  
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      RainbowKid
      You do realize the Tide Pod thing was a very small amount of people. It just seems like a lot because the idea went viral 🤔
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    Debbie Thomas
    You forgot: 
    
    
    * "If I'm miserable, so will everybody else."
    * prop yourself up (I'm better than you), you don't deserve.