别再试图控制别人

如果你开始表现出防御、恐惧或控制欲,请停下来问自己以下问题:

 

我究竟在害怕什么?

我的担忧是否合理?

* 我真的能掌控局面吗?

* 这样做值得我付出失去亲密关系的代价吗?(如果对象是我关心的人)

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    Kyle Corey
    I thought this was a complaint.
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      Sea
      作家
      Tricked ya!
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    RainbowKid
    2. Am I surrounded by stupid ass people? 🤔🤣
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      Debbie Thomas
      Have we forgotten tide pods? In the  general public at large. Just saying.  
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      RainbowKid
      You do realize the Tide Pod thing was a very small amount of people. It just seems like a lot because the idea went viral 🤔
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    Debbie Thomas
    You forgot: 
    
    
    * "If I'm miserable, so will everybody else."
    * prop yourself up (I'm better than you), you don't deserve.